
If you have M.S.and would like to have your story highlighted here on my blog for National MS month,
Please contact me at NancywithaJones@Gmail.com
If you have M.S.and would like to have your story highlighted here on my blog for National MS month,
Please contact me at NancywithaJones@Gmail.com
Since March Is MS AWARENESS MONTH, I wanted to do something special. I cannot think of anything more special, than to introduce you to others that are more aware of MS every single day. We all live it, so this is the real MS. These are the REAL stories and the REAL people that have it. You will see all types and stages of MS. I hope you see how different it can be for everyone.. I would like to add before I start this.(as I always do) check with your Dr before you change anything in your own personal MS regimen. What works for one may not be the answer for another. ~ Nancy
Hi my name is Kristin Vautour and I would like to share my story. I was diagnosed with MS on Dec 18th 2013 at the age of 30.
I believe it started in April 2012 when I lost sight in my right eye. The optometrist stated I was a “rare” case. The eye Dr. didn’t know what to expect. I regained my eyesight within a month.
August 2013, I took a fall at my camp while i was cleaning. I ended up waking up the next day with my right side being numb. I went to the emergency room and was told later on that it was a “pinched nerve” and i shall regain feeling within a few weeks. Well a few weeks later, my stomach and back went numb along with the right side. I went back to the emergency room and was given and MRI. I received a phone call a week later stating that I had an appointment to see a neurologist.
I went to see the neurologist and was later told that I had multiple sclerosis!
That was the worst day of my life ever, well besides the day i was told that i have Endometriosis in 2007. Anyway, I was sent out to have all these tests done to make sure the diagnosis was indeed correct. I later told only close family about my diagnosis and they were all crying and in shock! My little sister thought that i was going to die! I wont lie to you, I was afraid and fell into a deep depression but who wouldnt after hearing that you have a neurological illness that has no known cure as of yet!
It took me almost a year before telling the world, well my friends and extended family only because i felt that they would treat me different or give me sympathy, when really, all i wanted was a shoulder to cry on at times.
My now husband has been with me for 10 years and thankfully he is here every step of the way I would be lost without him, I finally decided to marry him, the man of my life in April of 2014!
During the few months after the fall and the right side being numb, i fell down a flight of stairs at work. Off to the emergency room I go. I suffered a mild concussion, fluid in my right knee and a week off work. Apparently, MS was a part of this.
I have done tons of research to find myself and get answers to the questions i was looking for.
Day after the wedding i had a relapse where I couldn’t’ feel from my waist down to my toes.To this day, i still cannot feel my toes and have a hard time walking.
I have spent so many days going back and forth to the emergency room, that i forget the number. Its pretty bad that when i go in i have to educate the staff members about my condition and what I need once I have a relapse.
I have been on Copaxone and since my body rejected the medication, I am currently taking Tecfidera. I feel that the medication is not helping only because of stomach issues since August 2014, but that is another issue, that I will discuss when I figure out what it is.
I have to mention that I have met some great people along the way through face book groups as well! I feel that if you talk to people who share the same illness as you do, you are never alone without answers! I have been told to stay strong and keep smiling from day one and i have been!~
That she has. Kristin has a beautiful smile and is always smiling. ANOTHER MS WARRIOR I admire! Thank you for sharing your story Kristin. You always bring a smile girl and touch so many. Keep up the fight friend.~Nancy
If you have M.S.and would like to have your story highlighted here on my blog for National MS month,
Please contact me at NancywithaJones@Gmail.com
I have not posted in the last couple of days. A viral bug had hit Here (me) pretty hard. That is just one of the things that happens with M.S. We are more susceptible to Viruses and other illness. Especially when you have a school age child that brings home all the crud from school. I apologize for not updating, but I will be extending this until EVERY PERSON IS HIGH LIGHTED. EVEN if IT GOES INTO APRIL.
Since I got this virus I wanted to share some things M.S. does. I don’t want to be negative but so many people JUST DO NOT understand. One simple thing like a cold that on a normal person could just be a sniffle that they can keep going with, literally has put me in the bed for going on several days now. It is hard to imagine and yeah some thing “YEAH you re just milking it” NO. This Project IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME.
I was very upset to have to put it on hold. I couldn’t talk, stand or sit up. Still dizzy when I stand. BUT, I am finally able to sit up. I am being fussed at for doing this right now. MS people often push harder and do things to prove themselves worthy. I know I do. It is difficult to understand when you don’t have a chronic illness, better yet a couple of them. I know I belong to a group that has some pretty tough people in it. These are some TOUGH individuals that have hearts of gold. They are there for me and everyone in there because they go through it themselves.
I had a friend that came here and was here for me when I was literally at my worse. I will never for get that. I had Tina that I highlighted last that let me do “FLAT TINA” to help cheer me up. I was in a really bad place having these shingles FOR SO LONG. They are amazing friends. I love them. I am thank ful for them just like I am my family and church family and any friends. Support groups are important which leads me to my first key point.
SUPPORT* Multiple sclerosis is a tough disease not just on the person going through it but their entire circle. The entire family suffers. I am fortunate I have a family group of friends and church family here. So many don’t. If you live near someone and you know they have a chronic illness such as MS If you know them, do something nice occasionally. put their paper on their porch, Take the garbage can back to their house from the road, get their mail for them, or give them a call when you are going to the store see if they need anything. Be a friend. They may be reluctant at first, that’s normal, Don’t let it discourage you. People with chronic illness are used to doing things for themselves they don’t like asking for help. It may take a time or two. I know there are so many times I wished my friends would show up in PJS with a movie so I didn’t feel intimidated to have to put on clothes and go anywhere. But IT IS A LONELY illness. When in a flare you can’t really go anywhere. Especially with secondary shingles. Not everyone is that way though. BUT you can give them support other ways. I have gotten so many cards and let me tell you that right there is a great way to show you care. just a simple card. is so sweet. Drop an email or an instant message I know it is hard to get hold of people by phone these days. But you can leave messages. Knowing someone out there is praying for you and cares sometimes can be the difference in fighting that extra bit harder. so I encourage you to do this for others. So many fight this illness and OTHER ILLNESSES. Elderly and young alike. a simple thought of “Im here and thinking of you and praying for you” will help them so much even if you don’t understand. I had someone tell me they were reading about MS and trying to understand. That was the sweetest thing i had ever heard.
sometimes further support is needed. If you cannot get to a LIVE support group in your area. There are several places online:
http://www.MSWORLD.org is a good one
http://www.MSCONNECTION.ORG is another one
http://www.Caring.com has a list of some
http://www.Nationalmssociety.org also can put you in touch with one that may be right for you.
Those are just a few. There are many out there. Just google MS SUPPORT GROUPS and the list that comes up is endless. MS WORLD has different sectors under it that can put you in touch with others that have smaller groups.
*Rest- We all know how important rest is. That is the one thing I remember before I was officially diagnosed. I was so tired. I used to go go go go go. constantly. Always the one doing and going. BUSY always. I cannot get over the devastating exhaustion that goes with this disease. It is important (according to my dr) to listen to this and rest. I know we want to not disappoint our families or friends and we want so badly to do things. We wear ourselves out just getting dressed to go places and it is disappointing. When we have good days we want to celebrate and we often over do it. WHY? because we don’t know when the next one will be. so we just go crazy having the best day ever getting as much done and as many memories as we can out of it as we can. We know the next day (or the next) we will be back down to the rest cycle.
When we hit a remission we can feel like a normal person. It is just getting there.
*Stress ~ This is a biggie. Stress to someone with MS is like Kryptonite to superman. We have to learn how to control stress. Or get rid of it. Exercise really helped me when I am able. Yoga, stretching, walking,
There are lots of great ways to manage stress. Many MS people like to spend time creating Making Art, creating poetry, There are so many outlets you can use. I personally love to scrapbook photos of my family and make home decor art as well as paper crafts (cards).I find that doing things for others helps get my mind off what is going on in my world. (when I am not having a shingles attack and can volunteer) our church has so many programs to volunteer with. It really is good for the soul. If you like to make cards there are lots of places that love to receive them such as the veterans hospitals, nursing homes, Ronald Mcdonald house, Churches have shut ins Im sure they would love to give them to someone that needs a smile.
Those are just a few topics this week I wanted to share with you that some don’t discuss when talking about MS. I will go over others next week.
I will highlight another person with MS tomorrow. I hope you all are having a great week 🙂
Nancy J
I
My story begins 16 years ago, in March of 1999…
My left foot became numb and gradually worked its way up until my entire left side was completely numb. Within days I had double vision and couldn’t walk a straight line if my life depended on it. I eventually ended up in the E.R. where they immediately set me up for an MRI. That first MRI showed one lesion on my brain stem.
My second MRI, in July, also showed that same lesion but it had gotten bigger. Still just one lesion, so it wasn’t “multiple” sclerosis.
Throughout the year I continued to experience different symptoms, such as choking, weakness, vision problems, etc.
In December 1999 I had another MRI and a spinal tap done. They both came back possitive for MS on December 17th. I now had 12 lesions.
So, it didn’t take long to get diagnosed, but now that I know what MS is and what the symptoms are, I know I had it in high school 33 years ago.
Needless to say, my life has taken a dramatic turn since then. I was working two jobs when I was diagnosed; within two years I was on disability.
My youngest daughter, now 20, doesn’t remember me without MS.
Seven years into the disease I found out I have PRMS.
No matter what form of MS you have the biggest thing you can do for yourself and for your MS is LISTEN TO YOUR BODY! If it’s tired, rest. If it wants sleep, go to bed. If it’s weak, sit down. Fighting it will only make it worse.
Everybody deals with MS differently, but I survive it with humor. I love to laugh!
I have found support from different sources. The National MS Society, seminars, different groups online, etc. Just keep looking until you find where you’re comfortable and where you fit in.
My life is amazing! Even with MS.
I have two amazing daughters, both in college.
I have met, and now live with, an amazing man.
I have wonderful friends and family.
I AM A VERY LUCKY WOMAN!
Just remember that MS doesn’t end your life, it just changes it.
Good luck to you all!
Tina
Tina has a wonderful story of courage and she does have an amazing sense of humor. She keeps everyone laughing. I know with a recent visit I had with a friend we took her picture and made a flat version of her. We took pictures doing all kinds of things (even going to get yogurt and picking my daughter up from school) It was hilarious and so much fun. It cheered me up when I was so sick and she was a great sport, laughing the entire time. She is always the first one to laugh and crack jokes. She may not know this, but she is a huge inspiration to so many of us in our group of peers. ~ Nancy
Since March Is MS AWARENESS MONTH, I wanted to do something special. I cannot think of anything more special, than to introduce you to others that are more aware of MS every single day. We all live it, so this is the real MS. These are the REAL stories and the REAL people that have it. You will see all types and stages of MS. I hope you see how different it can be for everyone.. I would like to add before I start this.(as I always do) check with your Dr before you change anything in your own personal MS regimen. What works for one may not be the answer for another. ~ Nancy
After a couple of years of having different vision trouble, many dr appointments with no answers. I went on vacation to an island right after spring.
Being a hairdresser, precise vision is usually a must. I came home from the trip, woke up the next day with blurry, double and triple vision. My eye sight proceeded to become worse to the point my eyes were literally stuck. I was unable to move them up or down nor right to left. That’s where the start of this journey to find out what was “wrong” really escalated.
After two spinal taps, they found nothing and was sent home befuddled. This may seem very odd to hear. I then broke out in the hives and I was given prednisone as the result. Which as we all unhappily know is about the only thing that “fixes” us. It also cleared up my hives. It took another week or so to “straighten up” from all that!
I was then referred by my eye doctor to another eye doctor. He knew right away from having me do a few simple tests (reading childrens colored books) that I had M.S. Which at that time,1994, I had NEVER heard of …He then called a neurologist and within less than 3 days I was diagnosed with Relapsing Remitting Multiple Sclerosis
.I find laughter in something every day to help deal with M.S. …Laughter is the best medicine!!!
If someone was just diagnosed I would tell them not to overwhelm themselves with everything they hear,or read just any and everything. It can be very scary! When going through a hard time with M.S. my advice is If you have a understanding person keep them close, don’t push them away. Try to find your comfy place, having a pity party is totally fine. Just don’t stay there forever, And remember this to shall pass.
Thank you Sydney! You truly are an MS WARRIOR! I have not known Sydney that long but what I do know SHE TRULY IS a fighter! MS will not get in her way. She is very funny and has made me laugh on so many occasions. kEEP UP THE GOOD FIGHT FRIEND!
If you have M.S.and would like to have your story highlighted here on my blog for National MS month, Please contact me at NancywithaJones@Gmail.com
It is National Multiple Sclerosis Awareness month and I wanted to do something special on my blog this month. I cannot think of anything more special than to introduce you to others that are more aware of MS every single day. These are the REAL stories of MS and the REAL people that have it. You will see all types of people and stages of MS. I hope you see how different people are that have it. Please (as always) check with your Dr. before you change anything in your own personal MS regimen. What works for one may not be the answer for another. ~ Nancy
Today’s post is going to be a little different. It is about a couple and they BOTH have Multiple Sclerosis. Yes you read this correct. BOTH of them. Their story of faith and how they deal with this disease is truly glorious. I have known Randy Fedric for some time. I will never forget when he told us he met Susan. Their love for the the lord and each other well. I just love em to pieces. They completely inspire so many and I just could not do any type of awareness without them. You will see why.
Susan: “We met online… in an MS support group.
Randy was diagnosed in 2009 after going through over 8 years of symptoms. Susan was diagnosed in 2010 after many years of weird symptoms. She also has fibromyalgia, so a lot going on kept being blamed on that.
We have to go to a lot of doctor appointments. We have struggles everyday of some sort. That would cause a person to be in a cranky mood most of the time or mad at God because he allowed that to happen, but we don’t look at it that way. It keeps us closer to God because we have to depend on him. MS has deepened our faith in the Lord. We have to get to some point to where we realize that our complete and total value is on the fact that we are God’s children.
It is not how you look, it is not what kind of job you have, it is not what kind of house we live in, or what kind of car we drive, what size we are, or how smart we are. It is none of those things. That is what MS has shown me. I don’t have to be able to have the really good nursing job that I used to have to be something of value. My value is that I am a princess of the King, and that is it!. All the other stuff does not matter.”
One of the things Randy realized since being diagnosed with MS, is my ability to do things in the past. I could do anything. I could do construction, carpentry work, welding, and work on vehicles.
Now, I am not able to do the things the same way I used to do. God has shown me that I depended a whole lot more on what I could do, more than I depended on him. He helped me to realize that my dependence needed to be 100% him
Our advice to people out there that are newly diagnosed and also for the warriors that maybe are having a rough time with this disease is to learn to pace yourself, learning to conserve your energy is a lifelong process, so as to stay active and not over do.
Learning that when you have a bad day, it won’t last forever it is just that a bad DAY. Allow yourself to experience those days and talk about it. GET SUPPORT. Negativity is not a good thing for Multiple Sclerosis. This is reality. No person is an island unto themselves. Everyone needs a healthy support system.
Randy and Susan have 3 boys and 6 fur babies to keep them busy. In her spare time Susan enjoys making crafty stuff, from scrapbooking to other crafts it is great diversion therapy.” (I agree with that Susan)
If you have M.S.and would like to have your story highlighted for National MS month feel free to contact me at NancywithaJones@Gmail.com
Since March Is MS AWARENESS MONTH, I wanted to do something special. I cannot think of anything more special than to introduce you to others that are more aware of MS every single day. We all live it, so this is the real MS. These are the REAL stories of MS and the REAL people that have it. You will see all types of people and stages of MS. I hope you see how different people are that have MS. I would like to add before I start this.(as I always do) always check with your dr before you change anything in your own personal MS regimen. What works for one may not be the answer for another. ~ Nancy
My name is Amy Donaldson, I’m 39 years old. I was diagnosed in August 2012 when I was diagnosed with optic neuritis and lost sight in my left eye. Although I was just diagnosed in 2012 I believe I have been suffering symptoms of MS since my early 20’s. Eventually my sight came back with IV steroids.
My MS medicine of choice is Tysabri and I love it. The main symptoms I deal with are fatigue, memory loss and leg pain.
I have had one relapse of optic neuritis since my diagnosis. For the most part my MS doesn’t affect my daily life. I still work full time as an accountant and am raising two kids 9 and 13 and am married to my high school sweetheart.
We have been together 23 years. My best advice for fighting this disease is a good, positive attitude and you have to be your own health advocate. Do your own research don’t rely on your doctor to educate you on everything. Each day I wake up and put my boxing gloves on!!! 😉 I am thankful for MS, I’ve met some amazing friends like Nancy. God is always good. If I’ve helped one person, made someone smile or laugh then maybe I’ve shown a little bit of God’s peace. That there is hope. That makes suffering this disease a little easier to bear.
Amy is a wonderful mom. You can tell she has great faith as well as puts her family first. She is always smiling and cheerful. Even when she may have a bad day she will still have an encouraging word for someone else. She is truly an MS WARRIOR and I am proud to call her my friend.~ Nancy
If you have M.S.and would like to have your story highlighted feel free to contact me at NancywithaJones@Gmail.com
Since March Is MS AWARENESS MONTH, I wanted to do something special. I cannot think of anything more special than to introduce you to others that are more aware of MS every single day. We all live it, so this is the real MS. There are some very diverse stories that will be happening throughout this month and hey it may go longer the way it is looking. Which is AWESOME! These are the REAL stories of MS and the REAL people that have it.You will see all types of people and stages of MS. I hope you see how different people are that have MS. I would like to add before I start this.(as I always do) To always check with your dr before you change anything in your own personal MS regimen. What works for one may not be the answer for another. ~ Nancy
Today, I want you to meet Joey Marra. (His story as told by his mom /caretaker /superwoman Carole J. Stoll-Marra)
It all started in Feb, 2005 when Joey was 7 years old. His eyes were bothering him and it appeared he had pink eye (I thought)
So, I took him to the Pediatrician’s office. They did diagnose him with “pink eye”. Gave him some eye drops, sent us on our way..a few days passed. Joey’s eyes seemed worse.
The left one was red.He was in excruciating pain.We took him back to the Dr. They sent us to an eye specialist where he was diagnosed with Uveitis.(inflammation of the iris).
I NEVER heard of it. Had NO idea what it was.
They told us there was an underlying cause..boy,they were right!!
The very next day,Joey was losing his balance,had memory problems and was very tired..too tired for a 7 year old boy,I thought,
Then,he fell hard on the kitchen floor & could not get up..we called 911 and they took him by ambulance to Women & Children’s Hospital Of Buffalo.They admitted him. They did numerous tests..MRI’s,spinal tap,blood work,etc..also started treating him with steroids.
They found lesions on his brain. They suspected ADEM..he was released a week or two later only to have more debilitating symptoms..and ended up back in the hospital several times that summer..then, MS was suspected but we were told several times he was too young, not to worry.
We wanted answers..so,June,2005 we took Joey to Children’s Hospital Of Philadelphia where he was admitted..more tests,steroids,etc.
That we were going to need all kinds of support.But,they did not diagnose him, sent us home.
Buffalo was hesitant to diagnose him because of him being so young.Then,Joey had another flare-up..back in the hospital, back for more tests and steroids..sent home again. numerous Drs. appts. until..
The diagnosis day-Jan.10th,2006 Joey was 8 years old.
Came the appt,I “thought” the neurologist was going to tell us he was going to be okay.
We sat down and she came in the room saying “It looks like MS.”
What do you mean,I said? You told me all along he was too young.
She just looked at me and handed me a packet about MS & Avonex.
Told me a visiting nurse would be calling to set up a time to show us how to do his shots.
Avonex took away Joey’s quality of life,(I personally feel)..so,they put him on Betaseron which caused his liver enzymes to elevate.Copaxone came next which he tolerated well but turned blue and stopped breathing after injecting himself a few times..Jan.2012 was the final Copaxone shot that almost killed him.We called 911 again.. while we were standing in our living room with eight EMT’s. That was enough. I called his neurologist and told him NO MORE shots!!
Here we are three years later.We DO NOT regret our decision and are fully aware it is possible some day Joey will have to go back on treatment. But,for now he is eating healthy, clean diet, exercising 2-3 hours a day,has lost a lot of the weight he gained from the treatments and is an honor student.
This poem that Joey wrote I think says it all perfectly,
Joey will be 18 on March 19, 2015.
KEEP UP THE GOOD FIGHT! YOU TRULY ARE AN INSPIRATION AND AN MS HERO!
Nancy Jones
HELLO all you awesome people. A few things today. I am working hard on some stuff for Multiple Sclerosis Awareness month.(NO I DID NOT wear orange today steroids have me too fluffy to fit in my orange. SO, I wore blue and Black and argued, it was a perception thing and could be orange and cream if the lighting was different) You know my crazy.
The good news, I got a good report and, I will be soon back to my (see picture above) self in no time. Because I look like I swallowed all of us and snow white right now. Thanks to steroids.(I hear you all doing the I KNOW SISTA groan) My dr asked what was I eating today. I laughed because,
its obvious and told him. “Given enough ketchup.. what won’t I eat right now.I’d eat your shoe cause I am kinda hungry.” I have been on steroids.” How long will this be in my body? make it stop!” He knows I am always going to bring laughter when I am there. This is just how it is. Hey he is supposed to fix it right? We discussed how well I did with the exercise clean eating thing. He said lets do that but (as I have been saying and know this I cannot go crazy with protein because of shingles) I have to go more veggie. So operation clean the diet is underway. I may be hatin on everybody for the next few weeks
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
This month (the rest of it) I have been gathering stories from some awesome people as to with all sorts of things questions, their advice, how they deal, all kinda stuff I have a lot of mail I am going through and I will get a post up shortly. FIrst…
I wanted to also bring some attention to something we don’t always talk about during MS awareness month. Our caregivers.
I personally want to thank and give a huge THANK YOU to all of the care givers out there.
Without you I don’t know what we would do.
(I love you John and Bella and the rest of everyone that helps us )
I personally challenge you to be sure if you have a caregiver (even if that person is yourself) today to say an extra THANK YOU, Give and extra hug to your care givers.
THey need a ribbon and a month of awareness themselves!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
OK I have a lot more work to do, so I have to get busy. Had the dr appt. this morning. (My dr is leaving ::tear:: so was my last visit with him) Going to miss him. He is awesome.Seriously though, I wish him well. I THANK HIM for taking such amazing care of me, us. He will do amazing in research. I know he cares and will be looking out for all of us. Good luck to you Dr. Eckstein we will miss you so much here. You made our lives better. I chose caregivers today because. YOU were one of mine and You as well as my other dr’s, The nurses, My Husband, everyone that have taken great care of me. I THANK YOU.
Till later My Fellow MS’ers
SO VERY WORTH IT!
LOVE and CARE
STILL,
Nancy with My JONES
What is she going to do next?
Jesus died and lives. God's answer to your sickness.
Just another WordPress.com site
Find the perfect theme for your blog.
When DavidKFlowers.com just isn't nearly enough Dave
MS kills connection>> <<Connection kills MS.
Southern thoughts- from a Mississippi girl.
Helping to raise multiple sclerosis awareness.
Wherein love, life, and living with MS are explored and explained
From My personal walk with MS to Accessible Vacations